Have you ever had someone or people you've called "friends" but they turn out to be worse than your enemies? In the world we live in today, there are so many people who are two-faced and hypocrites. There are a lot of situations where people you've called your friend for so many years become strangers in a second as a result of broken trust, or stabbing you in the back.
Fake friends are always there when they need something from you or when they have no one else to hang out with or people turn their backs on them but once they get what they need, they disappear in a blink of an eye. They show no act of care when they see you sad instead, that is the moment they become so happy and forget about their duties as a friend. Speaking of duties, what do you think are the duties of a "real" friend? Everyone has a moment in their life when they have no space or time for fake friends and just need real people around them.
It doesn't take anything to cut people off! Cutting people might just lead you to realize your real friends.
On the other hand, real friends are those who become family. They are hard to find and in some cases easy. They do not take advantage of you or what you have instead they add values to your life and help you grow. They always show themselves both in difficult and happy times.
HERE is my own version of duties of "real" friends...
- Real friends will always stand up for you and always got your back even without you asking.
- Real friends are always there to make you feel better in bad times (Not necessarily in person).
- Real friends will support you and be there for you to the best of their capability.
- Real friends should not be a "YES" person but should always be truthful when asked for their opinion even though it hurts.
- Real friends should not laugh and join others to talk about you negatively behind your back.
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